Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Lies

Like really? I know going to have an operation is scare y. I get that. I was going to suggest to hubby that if no one is going to be their for MIL when she gets out of her operation that he take the day off work and be there because their is nothing worse then waking up with no one there, but your eldest will be there (not your husband because he knows less than your children). BUT really going through all your stuff and sorting it out for your children because you are not going to come out of the operation alive is so over dramatic.

You tell 3 of your children that it is just a standard procedure but you carry on like you are! Going to visit everyone before you go because they will never see you again, really. You are either being over dramatic or you are lying about the operation. Which I think you are and so do your children. All besides your eldest who they all know, really knows what is going on. Why would you have an operation to take something out just in case?? Why can't you be honest with ALL your children and husband? They don't know whether to believe you or think its all a lie, there is no trust in your family because you all lie to one another about stupid little things, such as your eldest told James that she will be in hospital for 8 days after operation but don't tell her she told him. Like WTF James see's her every day usually so I am pretty sure he will notice she isn't home. Why is that a secret??  So your 3 other children are all talking to one another discussing what they think is going on because not one of them believe you.