Zack has always been an easy going boy when we go somewhere (my aunties, swimming lessons or playgroup etc) he always tells people (mum and dad etc) what he did, jumping up and down very excited. BUT when he goes down to MIL and FIL he won't tell anyone a thing not even me or his father, he just ignores us or changes the subject. Even after much prompting like did you go on the tractor he won't say a thing.
Some times when James is going to take him down to M&FIL he says he doesn't want to go, so James plays the whole ok I will go without you and walks out the door and he continues playing happily. James comes in and takes him anyway. He asks alot if I am going down but I try to stay away as much as possible and I use to go down before and they got the shits bc I was watching them and they wanted time alone with him. As we have had our differences namely on the abuse she gives James and was to Zack to calling him names. Which has ment to stop now so James says, BUT.....there has to be some reason he doesn't want to go down there!
I have thought alot about this since last time it happened and next time he says he doesn't want to go I am telling James well he doesn't have to go. There has to be a reason for this behaviour and I think me making him go is only loosing his trust in me, he it trying to communicate something to me and I need to listen to him. This is surely going to cause arguments between James and I but he has to stop putting his mummy first and think of our child and think yes that is unlike Zack not to want to go somewhere something must be going on. Ha the chances of that are slim but to bad, no more.
