Friday, September 30, 2011

Wits End

Zack really has me at my wits end. He is pushing all my buttons and I am finding it very hard not to loose it at him. He just keeps pushing and pushing and pushing and won't listen to a thing I say. It is really driving me mad. I don't know what is wrong with him and how to fix it. It makes me feel like a parental failure :-( Hopefully this stage will end soon because I don't know how much longer I can deal with it without loosing my mind and gaining the worse parent award.

Monday, September 26, 2011

I think you were right!

Oh how I love hearing the words "I think you were right". Especially when hearing them coming from your husband. I few weeks ago now I said to James in quite a pissed off tone that his brother is trying to keep you away from us to cause trouble between us again. He said do you think so and I answered "I know so", he piped up and said no I don't think so.

Anyway yesterday we were going down to his parents place to get the trailer when his brother dear rings. Asks what he is doing which James answers I have lots to do around the house and some things for work next week. 10 minutes later he shows up and says I need your help. Now James is stupid because he is to scared to say no to either his mum or brother. So what we were planning to do was put on the back burner. I loaded the kids into the car and was told he will be back before we get home from my parents place for lunch. I get home put the kids to sleep and he still isn't home. I ring him and say I thought you were going to be home before me and he said oh brother wanted me to look at putting an extension on his house (the thing we were doing was in prep to build a verandah on our house and he knows this). When he finally gets home he says to me, you know I think you are right brother does anything to keep me with him and away from you and the kids and the things I need to do. I just said I told you so.

Now I understand and think it is quite fine that he needs to help his brother and I would have been fine with it yesterday, if he hadn't spent the whole day before helping his brother.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Life can be so unfair


Sometimes you just don't know how lucky you are. I wing about my IL's and my kids not sleeping but they are nothing compared to what some people are going through. It makes me feel bad, I have NOTHING to wing about.

Visit http://stellasgalaxy.blogspot.com/ this is a women I know who's daughter is very sick. She was a healthy little girl then one day she started fitting and their lifes have been turn upside down. Its so devastating and unfair. I read her blog and cried my eyes out. She is such a strong women and no family should have to go through it. Please pray for precious, beautiful Stella.

After reading this I have nothing to complain about.

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Bye Bye



MIL is going away for 2 weeks, YAY 2 weeks of not having to think about her! Negative is that I thought it was for a month,and its only 2 weeks. YAY YAY YAY YAY so happy. Hope she doesn't comeback!

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Really???

Really my IL's are ridiculous. On the weekend my MIL had to go pick up my SIL's dog to look after. SIL rang James and asked him if he would go down to MIL's place and lift the dog out of the car for her. Now the dog is a boarder collie like the one above and is very old so has to be lifted out. What I don't understand is why she couldn't lift the stupid, child attacking dog out herself. The dog is a kg heavier than Ashton and she lifts him, lighter than Zack and I have seen her lift him so why the hell could she not lift a dog out of a small hatchback car.

Anyway she picked DH up on her way home and took him to her place (at tea time which he was cooking, we were having a bbq) and when he came home he walked in the door and said she is such a so and so B!tch. I said why what happened? He said she went off and was cruel to him about anything that was said. He left in a good mood and came home in a bad mood. She does something nice for her, out of his way which was for a ridiculous reason and she treats him like shit.

Monday, September 19, 2011

Yay I am back

Yay after almost 2.5 months I finally have my computer back!!! Well actually it is not my computer because they could not fix it so they gave me a new one! And so I think they should since I have been waiting for so long I was starting to get quite annoyed! So blogging will start again now! I love having my output and have missed it so much.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Ashton's Birthday

playing with his ball pit

All of his presents- waiting for dad to come home so he can open them

Waiting, waiting
Yum birthday cake

More presents from nan and pop

Cool bike nan and pop bought him

Piano from nan and pop

Yum Yum spaghetti for tea my favourite

Party birthday cake (so not happy with it)

Party all set up minus hot food

Lolly bags and cupcakes

Birthday boy

Birthday boy with his favourite person pop !