What a lovely mother and sister

SIL had a little boy on Friday. He still doesn't have a name. SIL and BIL want to name him something but her mother and her sister don't like it. So they think of an alternative, when they tell her mother and sister they say  "all we will think of is of someone else they know with that name". James rings her up that same day as it is the day she is released from hospital and she is in tears because they don't like any of the names they want to call him and there other brother hasn't even tried to ring her. James tells her to call the baby what they want. But since it is a week tomorrow since she has had the baby seems like she is still worrying about other opinions when it should be only between her and her husband.

If MIL was a decent mother she would leave her opinions to herself and put the stress of her poor hormonal daughter. SIL knows that her mother will never let her live it down if she names him something she doesn't like. She did it to me when I had Amahlia. She pipes up when she visits with poor little thing. I was sooooo pissed. But truely besides loving the name I loved it so much more bc I knew she would hate it. Its not a name in the bible and its different.

When James said to me about all of this I said to him see and you wondered why I wouldn't discuss names with you until we had our babies. We had our children then we decided a name. I wouldn't let him call anyone until we had a named picked out because if his family said they didn't like it, there wouldn't have been any chance of calling our children what we wanted.

Lies

Like really? I know going to have an operation is scare y. I get that. I was going to suggest to hubby that if no one is going to be their for MIL when she gets out of her operation that he take the day off work and be there because their is nothing worse then waking up with no one there, but your eldest will be there (not your husband because he knows less than your children). BUT really going through all your stuff and sorting it out for your children because you are not going to come out of the operation alive is so over dramatic.

You tell 3 of your children that it is just a standard procedure but you carry on like you are! Going to visit everyone before you go because they will never see you again, really. You are either being over dramatic or you are lying about the operation. Which I think you are and so do your children. All besides your eldest who they all know, really knows what is going on. Why would you have an operation to take something out just in case?? Why can't you be honest with ALL your children and husband? They don't know whether to believe you or think its all a lie, there is no trust in your family because you all lie to one another about stupid little things, such as your eldest told James that she will be in hospital for 8 days after operation but don't tell her she told him. Like WTF James see's her every day usually so I am pretty sure he will notice she isn't home. Why is that a secret??  So your 3 other children are all talking to one another discussing what they think is going on because not one of them believe you.

She's Back

She's back, MIL that is and of cause there is drama already. SIL that didn't go away with them came down because "mum would like us all to be there". James said we were not going down for tea he wanted to stay home. I wasn't going anyway but poor Zack had to go down. The next day James said to me sounds like its a good thing we were not there last night. They were all fighting and SIL that went away with MIL was crying. No wonder the next day when they rang up to ask if Zack wanted to go to there place he said no. Zack picks up on everything and I can imagine how horrible it was down there last night I have witnessed it before. I feel so bad that my baby boy had to witness it. So after the whole 2 hours of being back she has caused shit already. I so don't understand why they all don't just eliminate her from there lives, there lives would be so much easier.

Really???

Really my IL's are ridiculous. On the weekend my MIL had to go pick up my SIL's dog to look after. SIL rang James and asked him if he would go down to MIL's place and lift the dog out of the car for her. Now the dog is a boarder collie like the one above and is very old so has to be lifted out. What I don't understand is why she couldn't lift the stupid, child attacking dog out herself. The dog is a kg heavier than Ashton and she lifts him, lighter than Zack and I have seen her lift him so why the hell could she not lift a dog out of a small hatchback car.

Anyway she picked DH up on her way home and took him to her place (at tea time which he was cooking, we were having a bbq) and when he came home he walked in the door and said she is such a so and so B!tch. I said why what happened? He said she went off and was cruel to him about anything that was said. He left in a good mood and came home in a bad mood. She does something nice for her, out of his way which was for a ridiculous reason and she treats him like shit.

When will he think of his son before his mummy???

The family you chose to have, the day you married me and had our kids. We should now be your no.1 not your mummy and brother!!!

James wants Zack to go down to his mothers on Tuesday's that I work. All fine (beside I still think she is a child abuser and I don't want my kids anywhere near her) but she can't get him to sleep and it is the day before pre-school so he NEEDS his sleep, which James understands. So James wants him to go down and see if she can get him to sleep. I know she can't her saying "you show nanny how you are a good boy and go to sleep" doesn't work. I have trouble getting him to sleep after he has been down there because she insists on giving him b!oody poppers that send him high as a kite, there is something in them. I have asked James since he was little to ask her not to give them to him but no can't upset mummy. I say to James she won't tell us the truth about him having a sleep or not and he says we will know. So he knows they lie to us about him all the time.

I don't know how he expects me to take Ashton to my aunty to play with her little girl who is Zacks world and say no sorry you can't stay here you have to go to nans and be bored down there. He never wants to go down there any other time, James still plays the do you want to come for a drive with dad, when he asks where he says surprise because he knows he will say no if he says nans. Zack asks me to go down there so I can play with him when he has to go down there as it is, hense why they don't like me down there because he wants me and not them. If he says no I want to stay at my aunties I won't be taking him down there.

I wish he would think of Zack, he know he needs his sleep the day before he goes to preschool but mummy always comes first. It sickens me.