Really???

Really my IL's are ridiculous. On the weekend my MIL had to go pick up my SIL's dog to look after. SIL rang James and asked him if he would go down to MIL's place and lift the dog out of the car for her. Now the dog is a boarder collie like the one above and is very old so has to be lifted out. What I don't understand is why she couldn't lift the stupid, child attacking dog out herself. The dog is a kg heavier than Ashton and she lifts him, lighter than Zack and I have seen her lift him so why the hell could she not lift a dog out of a small hatchback car.

Anyway she picked DH up on her way home and took him to her place (at tea time which he was cooking, we were having a bbq) and when he came home he walked in the door and said she is such a so and so B!tch. I said why what happened? He said she went off and was cruel to him about anything that was said. He left in a good mood and came home in a bad mood. She does something nice for her, out of his way which was for a ridiculous reason and she treats him like shit.

speechless....You're a great parent!!!

I was talking to my niece yesterday and she told me something I still am having trouble believing. My BIL (nieces father, James brother) had rang them wanting them to come to his house for the day of one of my nieces birthday, to go out for lunch. When they said no we are going to Newcastle he went off. He called his eldest daughter a slag, his youngest daughter an asshole and then went on about there mother (his ex wife) and his ex wifes family. A sorry you NEVER EVER call your children names like this. No wonder they want nothing to do with him.

She said he went on about them having another family too. She told him it doesn't feel like it. They like to put them and the other side of there family down too. MIL has always called there other nan etc. names. Any decent human being knows you shouldn't/don't do this. You especially don't do it to the children. It is the number one rule in a divorce to not put the other parent etc down. BUT TO ACTUALLY PUT YOUR OWN CHILD DOWN is DISGUSTING. Really makes me want to have nothing to do with him. It really disgusts me!!! No wonder I am the only one in this family they will talk with (oh and don't worry it pisses MIL off). They know I will back there mother up any day. I miss spending time with there mother and them, she was the only thing that kept me sane while putting up with the bad family.

Anyway I am taking the boys up tomorrow to see them for my nieces birthday. James won't like it because it means I will talk to Fiona, but I don't care. He says I can go see her but for me not to do it behind his back, like he can tell me what to do HA! HA! I think it depends on his mood on how he will take it, but I am going no matter what. I can't wait to see them, I haven't seen them since Christmas and I haven't seen there mother in much longer.