Another one over with

Few another holiday survived and over and done with.

They are gone for now yay!

What a long week and a bit that was when the SIL was down. James and I haven't argued so much in ages and ages then when they were down. Zack was down there all the time ALL day no matter how much we said it was time for him to come home. James won't say no to bad he is to come home because he is to scared of them. I wouldn't have minded if it was a few hours but when it gets 9-12 hours a day it was to much for Zack which meant I had to pick up the pieces. He was emotional (thankfully thats stopped now they have left). But his silly, naughty behaviour hasn't stopped. It makes me so mad. It takes me ages to rope him back in. Some nights they didn't bring him home till 10pm way way to late and past his bed time, they carried him inside so it was obvious he was soooooo tired. They only care about themselves and what they want.

The negative thing is I am pretty sure they will be back this holidays so its all about to come again. *sigh*

Not to plan

I thought this was going to be the best school holidays in a really, really, really long time. MIL went away with one of her daughters for the whole holidays so no worrying about her. Which meant my other SIL wouldn't come up. Oh it was going to be bliss. I was wrong, SIL still came down. It wasn't to bad, Zack stayed there most of the weekend playing with her kids, but without the child abusing MIL there I was ok with it. I even went down there for lunch on the Monday. It reminded me how much I hated it but it also showed SIL, BIL, FIL how I was willing to go down there without MIL there. Actually I have been down there a bit since she has gone, just to prove that point. So it wasn't the bliss I was hoping for but it was still better than any holiday period in a real long time.

GET READY....Its holiday time, yay fun...NOT!!!!

Get ready for the vent post to come your way!! Its holidays which mean the trouble making SIL will be down. Fights will start! GREAT!! Oh how I love school holiday time. I wish we had money because if we did I would be leaving town while she is down and taking my kids with me.